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The Friday Fun: 9 June 2016

Life is fleeting, and all good things are only good because they are temporary. Revel in the contrast, because sweet wouldn’t mean a thing without bitter.

It’s Friday, star gazers, and here are few things to help you get into it.


1.This happy little piece from Women’s Running on the similarities between running marathons and writing books. It’s possibly only fun for me slightly niche fun but I think it’s a great read for anyone who likes running and writing and/or anyone looking to pick one or both of these things up. There’s a refreshing clarity in committing to a thing that’s more about effort than talent. All my life I’ve been obsessed with the having and not having of talent. It’s a crippling thing,  but since I decided to just put one foot in front of another, and write one word after another, without stunting myself with questions of ‘can i? should i? am i good enough? am i allowed to do this?‘ I’ve felt cleaner and calmer than a rockpool. Check out the whole thing here for a pop of hashtag life inspo but here’s an excerpt:

Writing forced me to spend so much time in my own head that it was a relief, if occasionally a painful one, to get out the door and do something so unabashedly and unquestionably physical. Running required very little thinking. In fact, it was better not to think. The book was an intellectual black hole that sucked out every bit of ability I had ever possessed. I was new to both and suffered parallel growing pains, which is the writerly way of saying I was sucking pretty hard all around. But a bad writing day did not necessarily align with a bad running day, so there was always hope of some reprieve. Eventually I got better—even good—at both.

On a good day, I use the time on my feet to work out the problems on the page. On a decent day, I use the time to empty my brain. On a bad day, I’m just running away, using the slap of my feet against the pavement to beat out my frustrations, sweating out the critical voices in my own head. And the truth is, that while those are the worst days, that’s when running is the most effective. The longer, the better. If things are hard, 10 miles is good, 20 is better, 50 is best. Like a forest fire, it burns out the old and makes space for the newest shoots and smallest leaves. It lets in the light.


2. This perfect, perfect open letter to the idiot Stark children for not treating their direwolves with the proper respect, from BlackNerdProblems. I only just discovered this site this week, and shockingly, there has a been a bit of decline in my productivity and turn-around times at work. I WONDER WHY. Read an excerpt below, the entire thing here, and just delight in the humour and truth of it.

Remember back when Joffrey was being a fuckboy then turned that fuckboyedness toward Arya holding her at sword point? Nymeria saw that shit and kept it a fucking buck as she ran up on Joffrey with the clamp to the hand? Arya tossed Joffrey’s piece into the river and they bounced from the scene of the crime. Arya had Nymeria dip ’cause she knew they’d try to Earth her for what she did


3. This heartwarming video about the world’s tiniest eco-warrior getting in his feels about the state of the planet. We should all feel this way. At some point he gets so angry at all the looters and polluters (I really, really hope his mum gets him every episode of Captain Planet) that he says he could even call them the S word! The S word, his mum clarified, was ‘stupid’. Oh the heart aches! Also, how amazing that this kid is so clear on his life purpose that he wants to be an ‘adult right now!’ so he can get on with it. His name is Henry Marr and I would be so honoured to raise a kid like this.


4. This invitation to some serious fun, from the Oxford and Cambridge Club of Nigeria. They’re having a ball- a real, honest-to-goodness ball- in Lagos, Nigeria on June 16th, 2016. It’s open to everyone, not just alumni. The theme is Monte Carlo, so I’m told there’ll be gambling and glamour galore. Here’s the flyer, which has ticket prices and RSVP deets. I’m going, so for those of you who still want to risk disappointment by meeting me in person, here’s your chance.




5.Finally this Alain De Botton article called Why You WIll Marry The Wrong Person. Now I know this seems not-quite-fun but it’s actually full of some solid life advice, viz, don’t put all your happiness eggs in the basket of one other person. Figure out how to be happy on your own, first. Here’s an excerpt:

The person who is best suited to us is not the person who shares our every taste (he or she doesn’t exist), but the person who can negotiate differences in taste intelligently — the person who is good at disagreement. Rather than some notional idea of perfect complementarity, it is the capacity to tolerate differences with generosity that is the true marker of the “not overly wrong” person. Compatibility is an achievement of love; it must not be its precondition.

This week’s featured image is of a sunrise to remind you that the next one you see will mean it’s officially the weekend, so



  1. Hi Mia,

    There’s something sad about the thought that good things are temporary. Well, the more reason to enjoy the hell outta them whilst they still last. #GlassHalfFull.

    For some reason, that “talk shit get bit” gif gave me an almost perverse thrill of satisfaction. I clearly haven’t gotten over my dislike for Joffrey.

    Ah, with all of your wit and sublime writing, I doubt that meeting you could ever be disappointing. It goes against the natural laws of the Universe, you see. 🙂

    Have a nice weekend.

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    • You know, there’s an argument (that I disagree with!) that we all hate Joffrey because (a) we envy him and (b) he stood out from all the other characters because only he got to live a life of total freedom- doing exactly what he wanted to do. Every other character was caged in some way, and so are we…

      All I know is I wish all the dead direwolves would rise up and feast on his bones.

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      • *Deep gasp* What?! We envy the spawn of satan?! How ludicrous! Alas, conspiracy theorists must earn their living someway, anyway.

        I’m with you on that one, the thought of dead direwolves sucking the marrow out of his bones is rather delightful. 😀


  2. Running and writing, I enjoy the comparison, both are about having the courage to start. Once you lose the momentum, you have to start from scratch, and that can become discouraging. Perhaps I should start running. #juststart
    As far as Joffrey goes…. I remain silent
    Damiloves – masks


  3. Red says

    Running is like writing for me right now because I’m supoosed to be doing both, but i just end up thinking about doing it instead. *welp*
    I found the little boy a little scary, but quite convincing because, I find myself thinking about baby animals eating garbabge and i want to yell, and not just in people’s ears.
    I read the why you will marry the wrong person article about a week ago or so (probably because i follow you on twitter and you shared it) and you dont know how excited I was to have read somethig that made its way to friday fun! 🙂
    I hope you’re having a nice weekend. thanks for this one.


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